Phases of Lucas
Lucas was the very first friend I ever made. He was so different then, but really he was the same to me. Even now it's clear, he was my crystal ball in a way. I saw him deal with the pain of loss, the emotions that flowed over a lifetime. He and I used slightly different tactics. Before 40 he left valuable lessons about pain and the forced masculine way of dealing with it are numerable, I learned so much, so many gifts he shared are making how I approach other men better as we speak.